One of me also that I find very realistic
Loving to Help, Helping to be Loved
Very nice, pleasant, she is realistic, I like some as much as all the others!
On the other hand, right now on our planet, many of us, or many of you, can think that and you are probably right. Life for some people has sometimes been bruised, traumatized, can be painful and when they tell some people
that they help them to be loved and well they try to see that the other person does not give them what they expect: to be loved! they are lost in manifest selfishness.
On the other hand, like to help without waiting for a return............. is more easily "cashed"
it is not moral, it had happened to me
Friendly! π